The Holy Ghost has put it on my heart to write this WORD to men, especially to HUSBANDS. This isn't for everyone, but I know that God will make sure the right people will read this. Thank You LORD! The Bible has much to say about and to HUSBANDS. It is written in Colossians 3.19: Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. It is written in 1 Peter 3.7:  Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. It is written in Ephesians 5.25: Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it. It is written in Hebrews 13.4: Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. It is written in 1 Timothy 5.8: But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.  

It is written in Malachi 4:6: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse. Father, surely the earth has been smitten with a curse because of the destruction of the family units. Father, we pray for men to return to their wives and children and for wives to return to their husbands and children. We pray for Prodigals to be returned to their fathers. We cancel and destroy the spirits of division, pride, arrogance, selfishness, stubbornness, hatred, anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, betrayal, lying, hatred, revenge, Jezebel, Ahab, and every hellish thing coming against the family unit. We cancel and destroy the spirits of lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh and the pride of life. We cancel and destroy the spirits of adultery and homosexuality, and every abominable spirit. Father, send now Revival, salvation, deliverance, healing, protection, prosperity, favor, provision, Godly wisdom, reconciliation, restoration, discernment, love, joy, peace, happiness, wholeness, and Your perfect will, in Jesus' Name. Amen. 

It is written in Ephesians 5.22: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. It is written in Ephesians 5.31: For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. It is written in Ephesians 5.33: Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband. It is written in Genesis 2.24: Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Husbands are called to be the Priest, Prophet, Prayer Warrior, Promise Keeper and Provider of the home.   

It is written in 1 Corinthians 11.3: But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ is God. It is written in 1 Corinthians 7.5: Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. It is written in 1 Peter 3.1: Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives. It is written in Ephesians 5.22: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.  

Every single day, all day long, I receive many prayer requests from women whose husbands have left them and their children helpless and without support, for some other woman. Rarely do I get a prayer request from a man whose wife has left him, but I do get those occasionally. Right now, I just want to speak to men.   The first thing I want to ask you is this: WHAT KIND OF WOMAN WOULD WANT ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND, ESPECIALLY A MAN WHO HAS CHILDREN AT HOME? Only one - a Jezebel. 

God's Word promises that you will reap what you have sown. God will not be mocked. If you have left your wife for another woman, it will not last. I don't care what you believe, it won't last, because what you do unto others will return upon your own head, one hundred fold. The pain, suffering, trauma, damage that your choices and actions have caused your wife, and your children, will come back around. Everything always comes full circle. God will not be mocked.   

If you are having an adulterous affair, you need to cut it off right now! You need to Repent, go home to your wife and children, and do whatever you must to reconcile with them. The world is full of Jezebel spirits (male and female) who are sent by Satan to destroy the family units. I pray without ceasing for marriages, men, women, children and the family units. But, I must tell you, that if you are reading this, and you are even thinking about having an affair, I pray to God, for your own sake, that you STOP and REPENT NOW! No one and nothing is worth going to hell over. Judgment Day is coming and we will all stand before a Holy God and answer for every thought, word and deed. I'm not saying that you will go to hell for getting a divorce, because that is not true. What I am saying, is that you will reap what you sow. What you do in secret will be shouted from the rooftops. Your sins will find you out.   

No good will come of it and you will pay dearly. I know this isn't a pleasant subject, but it must be said. The LORD has sent me to you right now to WARN YOU to STOP NOW! REPENT! and TURN FROM YOUR WICKED WAYS! SEEK THE LORD WHILE HE MAY BE FOUND! It is God's way or the highway.  If you don't heed my WARNING you will bring curses upon yourself and your children's children for generations! This is NOT a game! I beg you now, in JESUS Name, to repent and turn from your wicked ways.   

Look at Brad Pitt. I'm not picking on Brad Pitt, but I'm just using him as a perfect example. He was married to a woman and then he left her for another woman. I'm not mentioning the women's names, but I'm sure you know who they are. I said for years that when he married the woman that he left his wife for, it would not last. Not only would it not last, but it would end very badly. All I'm saying is that they are a perfect example of the Truth that I am speaking to you right now! And trust me, it isn't over for that man. He is going to pay dearly for the rest of his life, and his children are going to pay. I pray for every man, woman, child, marriage, family, rich and poor,  known and unknown. They are all God's children and they are all suffering because of the sins committed by men and women.   

Dear men, you MUST PRAY WITH YOUR WIFE and your children. I am convinced that when a husband and wife pray together, AS ONE, IN UNITY, God will move heaven and earth. I have witnessed it myself many times when my husband and I pray together. We became prayer partners long before we ever even thought about getting married. When we began praying together as husband and wife, the supernatural became our new natural and the impossible became possible. God has literally answered every single prayer we have ever prayed, large and small, and continues to answer every single prayer, some instantly and some in His perfect timing. Of course we suffer attacks, because we are a threat to the kingdom of darkness. If you belong to Christ Jesus, you will suffer persecution, but, we get to see the hand of God move mightily on our behalf every day, and we are witnesses to countless miracles. I am convinced the reason the supernatural is our new natural, is because we are PRAYING TOGETHER, AS ONE, IN UNITY, IN AGREEMENT, come hell or high water! I believe this is why marriages are under such attack today, especially men. Men are being choked by the python spirit and the enemy is out to destroy relationships, marriages, homes and children's lives. Satan only comes to kill, steal and destroy.   

I am NOT beating up on men, believe me. I have plenty to say to women shortly. For now, I was led to speak to men only, husbands and fathers. Please watch the video below and I pray the Spirit of the Living God will speak to your heart and send reconciliation to you and your loved ones. We pray without ceasing for men, women, children, families, homes, for reconciliation and total restoration. May God breathe on your marriage and your family, and make all things new.   


Deborah Taylor   

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We receive many prayer requests from men and women whose partners are abusive, cheating, controlling, manipulative, destructive, and playing games. Sadly, many of those who have married someone with the Jezebel spirit, met their spouse in CHURCH! Some are even pastors. We are here to expose Jezebel and to help you get delivered from the spirit of Jezebel. We are available to help you break free from ungodly soul ties, and get delivered from the Jezebel Spirit. Please see our EXPOSING JEZEBEL Page. You can be free from the control and manipulation of the Jezebel spirit. One of the reasons we are here is because Prophets are anointed and appointed to destroy Jezebel, and help you get free. Jezebel spirits can be male or female. 


It would be wise to decide whether or not you truly seek a godly woman, like the woman described in Proverbs 31, or an ungodly woman like some of the following women. I recommend that you study the Bible and see what God has to say about a wife, a mother and a godly woman. There is much wisdom in the Book of Proverbs. I pray you CHOOSE WISELY! 


Based on Proverbs 31 

She’s a virtuous woman, 

Worth more than rubies;

Her husband is blessed, 

She honors her duties. 


She treats him good, 

Every single day; 

She allows no evil, 

To get in her way. 


She works with her hands, 

She helps her spouse; 

She provides for all, 

Who live in her house. 


She rises up early, 

She works very hard; 

She sews and cooks, 

And plants a vineyard.


She cares for the poor, 

And for the needy, 

Everybody knows, 

She is a sweetie. 


Her family is dressed, 

In silk and purple, 

She treats everyone, 

Like they are royal. 


She’s never idle, 

Never unkind, 

She fears the Lord, 

She’s very refined. 


Her husband is known, 

By her good reputation, 

She should be honored, 

With much celebration.


(© 2012 Deborah Taylor    – All rights reserved. Written material may not be duplicated without permission.) 

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